FOREWORD:

FOREWORD:

"I know my thoughts are different from most of you who are reading this blog... So pardon me if it hurts your sentiments in anyway, because, it is not my intention... Well I would still request you, to not shut your mind completely and to think honestly, with out bias, or preconceived notions about what I have written and I am sure you will understand every word that I have written..." - ZaThinker

This space is dedicated to all the great people I have met or seen in my life and who have taught me everything that I know about life today....

From the paralyzed and immobilized beggar snailing flat on the dirty market street, picking up grains of rice with his tongue that was splattered on the floor by some ungrateful homo sapien who had too much, to the richest guy I have seen, who lives and dines like a King but is yet not satisfied in his life, From the rescued baby girl (I wish to adopt when i am more able or at least sponsor her in some way) at Missionaries of Charity who would never stopped being happy (talking to herself, singing songs and dancing) despite being blind, to the old women in the "Home for the Destitutes" who's children left them to die, but who still have the love in their hearts and have not lost faith in humanity (they ask my mom about me every time they see her and pray for me always). From all the strangers who hurt me or tried to harm me in some way or the other to the Women in my life who are the only ones who could come the closest to me physically, mentally and spiritually and so were able to hurt me worse than a stranger could.

LIFE TEACHES ALL: AND THE SMART ARE THOSE WHO LEARN NOT FROM THEIR EXPERIENCES & MISTAKES BUT FROM THE EXPERIENCES &MISTAKES OF OTHERS.... BUT THE ONES TRULY BLESSED ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE SOME ONE SPECIAL IN THEIR LIVES, TO BREAK DOWN THE MYSTERY OF LIFE, SOLVE IT FOR THEM AND ENLIGHTEN THEM ON THE TRUTH OF LIFE THUS SAVING THEM THE FRUSTRATION & TRAUMA OF DECIPHERING IT THEMSELVES...

UNFORTUNATELY LIKE ME, NOT EVERY ONE OF US IS LUCKY TO HAVE ONE...

WHAT IS MORE UNFORTUNATE IS THAT, I HAVE LEARNT ALL THAT I AM SHARING WITH YOU, ONLY AFTER INEVITABLY DESTROYING MY LIFE IRREVERSIBLY, AND IN THE PROCESS UNINTENTIONALLY AND HELPLESSLY HURTING MANY DEAR ONES, NOT BECAUSE I WANTED TO, BUT BECAUSE I NEVER UNDERSTOOD MY SELF OR MY WEAKNESS AND THE CONCEPTS/PRINCIPLES OF LIFE WHEN I SHOULD HAVE...

SO IF IT IS RIGHT TO LEARN SKILLS ONLY FROM PEOPLE/GUIDES/TEACHERS WHO REALLY KNOW THOSE SKILLS, THEN IT ONLY MAKES SENSE TO LEARN ALL WHAT ONE SHOULD NEVER DO, FROM THE VERY PEOPLE/SINNERS LIKE ME WHO HAVE DONE WRONG/SINNED IN THEIR LIFE AND ARE REGRETTING TODAY!!!

THIS IS NOT A PLACE TO PASS JUDGMENTS ON ANYONE BUT FOR US ALL TO LEARN ABOUT LIFE - THE MISTAKES WE DO WITH OUT EVEN REALIZING. THE MENTAL BLOCKS WE HAVE ETC... - ZaThinker


Tuesday, February 16, 2010

What Is True Love (Romantic Love)

Understanding True Love is not difficult: 
  • True Love Is The Purest Emotion, that Is Devoid of Lies, Secrets and Deceit.
  • True Love Is Not Riddled with Materialistic Demands, Selfishness.
  • True Love Is Loving even If you are not Loved In Return.
  • True Love Is Not Searching For Another If You Are Not Loved In Return.
  • True Love Is Not Living Two Separate Lives.
  • True Love Is Not Doing Each Other a Favour by Being With Each Other.
  • True Love Is Craving to Dedicate Maximum Time To Each Other, Enjoy Life Together, Doing Everything Together and For Each Other..
  • True Love Is Never Ever feeling Burdened in Loving, Caring or Looking after the one you Love.
  • True Love Is Never Changing For the Worst or doing things that might be against your love directly or indirectly.
  • True Love Is Happiness In Loosing Ones Identity to Another And adopting Everything Good In the Person you love. (Not adopting his/hers bad qualities that could destroy the relationship or affect it a bad way, or cause illness/death or make it impossible for both to get out off it when they realize their folly)
  • True Love Is Living, Breathing, Eating Dressing, Working etc in short is doing everything for the person you Love.
  • True Love Is Not Perverting the Foundations Of Love and Wanting to Be a Good Human Being for the one you love and Giving Up all evil ways of life, addictions and bad habits.
  • True Love Is Not, Giving Up When Problems Arise, Love Is, Fighting To Keep Alive All That Is Worth Dying For.
  • True Love Never Dies.
  • True Love Happens Only Once In A Life Time.
  • True Love SHOULD NEVER be perverted with parasitic concepts like Ratio Love.
UNFORTUNATELY FOR COUNTLESS, TRUE LOVE IS: 
  • ONLY about Courting, Dating Proposing, Enjoying Materialistic Pleasures, Committing Physical, Mental & Spiritual Violations WITHOUT ACTUALLY BEING IN TRUE LOVE.
  • Something like Relationship With Benefits.
  • Something that can Happen over and over again... 
Such Perverted Love arises only because of the affect of Heat, Hormones & Love Chemicals and so wears out/disappears/becomes COLD the moment the Hormones & Love Chemicals disappear due to problems, differences, shallowness etc.

I Hope that before people ever think of uttering the Sacred words of "I LOVE YOU" to anyone else, They ensure that they Loose their perverted concepts of love, understand what True Love means and at least feel for their Lovers the right way...
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